Time to talk # 2
February 14, 2019
I’m Miriam Neff-with STARTING OVER FINANCIALLY,-and I’m Valerie Neff Hogan, and we’re here to talk about money
M Financial issues top the list for reasons for divorce. Top reason, overspending. Often spenders marry savers. Result, either conflict or compromise. Conflict: saver is ready to scream, must i do everything? Give up and you get more? Spender “Don’t you know I like to have fun?”
V Start the conversation before either person is at that ‘wits end, or has hair on fire. We suggest having a set time regularly just to talk budget and finances. Schedule it when you’re not exhausted or hungry. Focus on feelings rather than judging behavior.
M Remember the strength of three strands in marriage, two individuals God as the third strand. Woven together, a stronger marriage.